New Jersey parents who have “Sesame Street” fans at home may know the popular children’s program has begun a series about divorce. While the divorce plotlines are not airing during the show itself, “Sesame Street” has launched an online toolkit for children experiencing divorce. The multimedia suite includes videos, storybooks and songs, among other tools for parents and kids.

While some have said the program’s decision to tackle topics of divorce and child custody is a sign of times, it is actually the culmination of many years of research. Here in New Jersey, the divorce rate has not changed much over the past 10 years, with about 3 divorces per 1,000 people. While the national divorce rate is about 40 percent, as we discussed back in October, census data shows that divorce is less common in New Jersey than in other states.

The “Sesame Street” divorce programming may illustrate that divorce is more normalized than previously. According to a grief counselor who was interviewed in a NorthJersey.com report, more children are aware of divorce now than in the past and it has become less taboo.

Back in the 1990s, “Sesame Street” reportedly tried to discuss divorce in an episode, but children in test audiences became so confused and afraid by the storyline that producers never aired it.

Today, New Jersey families may be more aware of divorce, but that does not mean it is any less turbulent–or that families know how to handle it better. The “Sesame Street” kit is one resource, among others, that exist to help parents and children communication about divorce.

Communication between children and parents during divorce can be vital. Of course, this is not the only necessary divorce resource. Those who are beginning the divorce process should be sure to seek legal counsel in to protect their interests and the interests of their children. Divorce is often a very emotional process, making it even more difficult for people to make wise decisions about property division, child custody and spousal support that will have short- and long-term effects on everyone involved. By working with professionals and utilizing available resources, families are often able to resolve divorce in the most suitable way possible.

Source: NorthJersey.com, “Sesame Street tackles the issue of divorce,” Jan. 24, 2013

• Our law firm in Kingston, New Jersey, counsels and advocates for New Jersey residents during divorce and other family law matters. To learn more about our practice, please visit our Divorce page.