When couples take the first steps toward divorce, they almost never consider that their choice of a divorce attorney can be instrumental in their journey of personal growth. Divorce is a long, arduous road for most couples, and the process can force one or both spouses to expand and learn in previously unimagined ways. A divorce attorney with many years of experience has seen the process bring out the worst in divorcing spouses, and also the best.

When selecting a divorce attorney, it is important to look for someone who can guide you through the process ethically and skillfully, encouraging you to grow in these ways:

• To be generous — children suffer less from divorce when they are not thrown into poverty by withholding, revengeful parents;
• To be a better parent — many mothers and fathers benefit from focused time alone with their children;
• To most often put the needs of your children before your own — attorneys can help parents prioritize according to the best interests of their children;
• To sometimes put your own needs ahead of your children’s — parents can learn to practice self-care to provide a healthier environment in their future homes;
• To continue your education — a parent becomes a strong role model by facing adversity with self-improvement;
• To build a good home— a good attorney encourages parents to create a home environment that is comfortable and suitable for children, both physically and emotionally;
• To plan your financial future — attorneys can map out the division of assets and their eventual distribution through legal and practical financial tools;
• To take care of business — in working towards a financial agreement, both parties can learn the intimate details of their financial household and take responsibility for understanding and mastering them;

Family law specialists juggle a number of skillsets within their professional world. Divorce can be trying, and it is often impossible for divorce attorneys to separate out legal issues from emotional trauma. However, a good attorney can be instrumental in supporting a client to show their best self throughout the divorce process, providing a powerful example to both the other spouse and any children involved. Likewise, it is prudent to shy away from an attorney who encourages you to be spiteful, hide your assets, deprive your children of love, affection, or financial support, or in any way seek to punish your X2B. While this may be tempting, it is counterproductive to the future you are just beginning to build.

If you are considering divorce, reach out to the Family Law Team of attorneys at Hanan M. Isaacs, P. C.  Call 609-683-7400 or submit a simple contact form online. We offer you “compassionate counsel and tough advocacy” right now, when you need it the most.