Legal Planning Can Help Couples Entering Second Marriages

It goes without saying that divorce can bring some exceedingly intense emotions to the forefront. After a time for recovery, however, some people may begin to enter into new relationships. Marriage data show that second or third marriages by either the husband or wife account for 43 percent of all unions.

While first-time spouses face a number of challenges, couples who have been previously married must deal with separate issues that could arise. For example, the increase in second and third marriages has resulted in a rise of so-called “blended families.” That term refers to the situation where parents bring children from a prior marriage together in one new familial unit. Parents will have to decide how they would want their assets divided among their spouse, their biological children and their step-children.

This task will not always be easy and it may involve ironing out some conflicting emotions. But it is important that people complete it so that their wishes are carried out. In addition, spouses entering second and third marriages may want to consider the potential benefits of a prenuptial agreement. These legal documents can neatly lay out property arrangements and can avoid potential disagreements down the road. They are especially helpful where spouses may want to protect significant property or children from a prior marriage.

The traditional view is that engaging in extensive financial and legal planning before a marriage spoils the romantic aspect of the relationship. Whether couples let such preparations put a damper on their romance may largely depend on their perspective. But when those plans are needed, the couples who eschewed them may find that resolving their disagreements may be unnecessarily difficult.

Source: CBS Boston, “Marriage, The Second Or Third Time Around,” Dee Lee, August, 2, 2012.

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